Senin, 13 Mei 2013

A Word for SUCCESS


Sekarang kita berada di zaman modern, dengan teknologi canggih dan mutahir, segenap kemajuan alat komunikasi dan informasi yang tak dapat dipungkiri. Perkembangan ilmu pengetahuan dan teknologi ini pun sangat membantu  bagi kemudahan hidup manusia. Pekerjaan yang semula sulit menjadi mudah, perjalanan yang semula lama dan melelahkan kini menjadi singkat dan nyaman, serta jarak yang semula jauh kini menjadi dekat. Semua kemajuan yang ada pada era sekarang biasa disebut efek dari globalisasi.

Di era globalisasi sekarang ini, kompetisi antara individu satu dengan individu yang lain sangat kentara dan persaingan bisa dilakukan dengan jalan apapun demi mendapat kepuasan pribadi maupun  status sosial.



Salah satu dari inti kompetisi ini yang ingin orang-orang capai  adalah kesuksesan. Makna sukses itu relatif, tiap orang memiliki pendapat yang berbeda mengenai definisi sukses itu sendiri. Misalnya saja ketika ada orang menganggap dirinya sudah sukses, tapi orang lain menilai ia belum sukses, atau bahkan sebaliknya. Maka latar belakang maupun lingkungan dapat menjadi faktor perbedaan mendefinisikan kata sukses.
                 Tidak ada satu orangpun di dunia ini yang tidak mau sukses, baik sukses dunia maupun sukses  akhirat. Di dalam sukses itu sendiri pasti ada kunci-kunci menuju sukses, manajemen waktu,visi dan misi maupun cara mempertahankan bahkan meningkatkan derajat kesuksesan.

Senin, 30 Juli 2012

Smile Up for Your Past, Teenager Life :)


Who never has a first love? No body. Who never has a puppy love? No one. Yeah, everyone who is a normal human, will feel a love in his/her early age, or at least when they are teenagers. It's not a parents' mistake who are wrong to educate their children. It's not teachers' smistake either. So no one should be blamed. When a person step a brand new day called teenage day, their emotion completely changes. They will adjust theirselves to others, observe their passion, look for the gank that they are comfortable with, and seek who the person that deserve get their love.
It's really hard adjustment if they are not good at choosing something. Anyway, one of them is all about love. Now is a modern era. Or we can call it technology era. You see on TV, so many programs that show us a love story of teenager. Or when we open facebook, you see the status of people either they single, in open relation, in relation, engage or married.
When you see it at summer break, you will see a lot of teenagers would change their status from being single, to be in relationship. Where they get it? At the park when they are having a walk with tjeir dogs? Maybe. At the beach when they are sun bathing? Probably. It's all teenager life. Teens can get 'crush' easily. Easier than u thought. Do you see on TV, when a girl walk and hit some guy and the books she brings fall down, they will see each other's eyes and da! Chemistry of love comes. It's one of the samples. Or another story comes from a friendship.
A girl is really close to a guy and then she feels really comfortable with him, and boom! Finally they expresse their feeling by saying 'I Love You,Buddy'. So sweet, right. Now think of your past. Have ever done one of the story before? Maybe you were type of someone who love studying, or doing sport, or active in your organization and there is no word for loving someone yet. But honestly, you ever had the feeling of get crush with someone, it should be right guess. Teens always show their love however it is. They can text their couple every other minutes. Or they are dating every sunday night, or at least they give a special give to their couple at a special moment like birthday,anniversary,or even graduation. It will change to be a mid- serious when they are going to step a new life- college. They maybe get in the different university, or even different city and country.
First, they will make a pinky promise that they trust each other and never cheat. A month, they still contact each other on texting, facebook, or skype. But a half year, they get bussier, and make them curious, why they feel so far. Then there is no ayear, they break up. It is the end of teenager life. They move to be a mature ones, and start a new relation that is more profesional. It's puppy love. Some stories tell us, many of married couples are from their puppy love. They meet again someday after years not seeing each other. And they start talking their past and just have a good time talking about that. Nice reunion. So, don't ever forget your teenager life, because someday you will tell it to your grandchil, and they will be so happy listen to the story of your puppy love. Trust it :)

Beginning A Start


It's the new start, a beginning. You know that when you start a life, it doesn't mean you start it by yourself. You will be welcomed by your parents, helped by a doctor, and God stated you your way, giva you a breath. It happens when you start a new start too.
 You will be welcomed by others. You don't believe it? Think that you will start a college life. Your parents will be so proud of you because you have done a high school life well. You will be welcomed by a college that you got accepted at. If you afraid you won't have friends, don't think it. Just enjoy your first day at college, and introduce yourself to everyone you meet. That's way you are going to have a bunch of new friends.
See, the start never begins with zero. You know when God created this world? It's not from zero. He first created a light of our prophet, then he created others. Nothing really change if you are not making a change. You need to ensure yourself that in the beginning of your re-start of life, you will do well. now, decide what you want to make a change in your life, then re-start your life with a huge smile on your face :)

Sabtu, 10 September 2011

Together, We Made A Story of Jogja's Visiting


On September 6, 2011, I and some of my friends from Tegal went to Jogjakarta to attend an Eid Fitr celebration with some other friends in the area of Central Java. We went up there at 10 ish in the morning and arrived about 5'ish in the evening. We stayed at Allan's home,Mr.Aslam's family, which is in the village of Imogiri.
After praying, we sat, gathering and started the agenda. That was about twenty five people came. Starting with the opening, then read tahlil which was led by Ustad Ahlan, ice breaking, and speeches from the host,Allan, and the alumni, Brotha Ambar.

Early morning, we got ready to visiting some places in Jogja. We rode two cars, the small one and the big one. The driver of the small one is Uncle Jarwo, he is the grandson of Mbah Marijan, who was the leader of Mt.Merapi area. So we went to Mt. Merapi, and visited Mbah Marijan's wife. She welcomed us so great, till she offered to us to go up there, to the place of her old home which got erupted by volcano. We got special chance, till we were the only one who could drive to the very up of it. Every body respects to the wife of Mbah Marijan. We saw all the rest of tragedy, Mt.Merapi Eruption. We saw a bunch of sands, and just nothingness. There were Some dead trees, and really undescrible houses. That made us so sorry about it. We went through a village that nothing there except sands, and it must be dead people and concrete were burried in the pile of sands. Scary. That was about three feets high.
There is a huge stone on the middle of the street. It was caused of the eruption stuff. We went to cemetery of Mbah Marijan. He died on the first of eruption, and he was burried in the village which people thought, the eruption wouldn't reach this area. But it was wrong. The second eruption almost burried all of this area. The roads and bridges that actually used to reach this place, are down, can not be used anymore. So every time the visitors would like to visit this cemetery, they should make a long way to go. 
We went back to Alan's home to get some rest and in the evening we got ready to the Paris of Jogja, which stands for Parangteritis Beach. It was a nice evening. Taking some pictures with friends, playing water and sands, and playing football were fun. We were late for leaving because some misscommunication stuff. We losed our friend,well, for a while. Then we got back to Allan's, took a shower and we were so ready to go to Malioboro. Malioboro is a shopping center, but kinda traditional, and so many friendly people there. You also can find some foreign tourists. The unique of this place is you can ride a cart rode by horses some where around it,if you want to. Morning or night will be the same, crowded. We stopped by a central field of the north (alun-alun utara) and got some food.
We hit the road and went back at 10'ish in the night. And that was it. In the morning of september eight, we went to buy some bakpia patok, traditional food of Jogja. After that, every body was leaving, include us, Tegal's Group, going back home by bus.
Well, this journey obviously taught us about love, friendship, togetherness, or even tragedy, and patience.

Kamis, 26 Mei 2011

The Young Scholars of Inland Empire Qur'an Contest

On Saturday morning, April 30, 2011, the Inland Empire Mosque hold the contest called The Young Scholars of Inland Empire Qur'an Contest. Basicly it was a contest for all young ages from 7-18 which are devided in four levels. The First level is from 7-9 years old, the second is 10-11, the third is 12-14 and the fourth is from 14-18. The registration was online, and we could download study guide easily.
before contest began
The event began at 10.00 am, starting by do'a that was led by one of the sisters who teaches sunday school at mosque.
For the first, second and third levels have two sessions, Qur'an recitation and written test. Just for the fourth level, they have a khutbah session for the boys and a khatiraa for the girls, which basicly the same, a speech.
About a hundred of kids joined this contest, but unfortunately just one boy and five girl contestantsan in the fourth level. The fourth level began with Qur'an recitation. The procedure was each contestant would be called to the certain room and recite surah An-naba, that they already memorized before, in front of one judge.
Then the girls came to up stair for giving a speech while the boys went down stair doing the same. There was one judge for the girls, and four judges for the boys. Eah contestant presented their speech differntly. By reading the text they bought, half memorized, or even power point presentation. There were three topics for the khatiraa: How women are supposed to be threated according to sunnah Muhammad S.A.W, why women supposed to wear hijab and what its impact for the personality itself, and how the mother of islam educates the women this generation. This session went really nice.
The next session was written test. For the fourth level, it was 38 multiple choice questions whic basicly asked about the pillars of islam, fiqh, relationship to the fellows, history of our prophet Muhammad S.A.W,and also the tafsir of An-Naba.
After all of them done, time for pray dhuhur, and obviously jama'ah. Right after do'a, we got ready to eat lunch.
The next session which so exciting and had been waited, was announcement who would be the winners. So for the fourth level, all the participants got the certificate, the third place got an iPod, the second got a computer, then the first place got an iPad. It was really big deal. And for the lower levels there were two bicycles and more iPods.
Three winners of the fourth level

The event closed by 1.00 pm. And it was a wonderful day. Beside we got to socialize and know another muslims from another masjids, we also got the merit for being in masjid,recite Qur'an,speech and review about the basic of Islam, also compete for the good thing.

Minggu, 20 Maret 2011

1920-an Amerika

                Setelah Perang Dunia Pertama, tepatnya tahun 1917, Kaisar Nicholas III Rusia mengundurkan diri dan memberikan mahkotanya. Rakyat menginginkan kebebasan, tidak ada perang lagi dan hidup sejahtera. Sekelompok orang membentuk partai yang disebut Bolsheviks, dipimpin oleh Vledemik Lenin dan partai ini berdasarakan ajaran komunis yang dibuat oleh Karl MArx. Karl Max dan Frederik Engels menerbitkan buku yang berjudul The Communist Manifesto dan berdasarkan ajaranya tentang komunis, Hidup adalah Perjuangan, dan Yang Punya dan Yang Tidak Punya ( Kaya dan Miskin). Komunis adalah sistem ekonomi dan politik dimana satu kelompok saja yang mengatur dan menghapus semua kepemilikan pribadi.                   Kekhawatiran Amerika mengenai Komunis pun meranda. Secara Amerika menganut sistem kapitalis ekonomi dan demokrasi politik. Beberapa orang bergabung menjadi kelompok komunis dan berusaha merebut kekuasaan pemerintahan. Kekhawatiran ini disebut The Red Scare. Selain para komunis yang meresahkan, muncul juga golongan lain yang disebut anarki, orang yang melawan pemerintah.
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Karl Marx
                   Karena kecemasan terhadap para komunis dan anarkis, A. Mitchell Pamer seorah jendral, beliau mendirikan Federal Bureau of Investigation yang kita kenal sekarang sebagai FBI. Beliau menunjuk Edgar Hoover untuk memimpin FBI. Berita menyebar bahwa FBI berusaha memberantas para komunis dan anarkis, karena terlalu hati-hatinya, biasanya hanya curiga terhadap orang tertentu, FBI akan menangkap orang tersebut terdakwah anarkis walau tanpa bukti. Salah satu contoh terdakwah yang dituduh anarkis adalah Sacco dan Vanzetti yang merupakan imigran dari Italia.

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Mitchell, Pendiri FBI
                         Salah satu aksi yang paling terkenal dan mengerikan adalah Ku Klux Klan. Mereka memakai seragam jubah putih dan topeng putih dan mereka menjunjung tinggi semua lelaki berkulit putih, lahir asli dan berkependudukan Amerika. Mereka tega membunuh orang kulit hitam, membakar mereka hidup-hidup atau menggantungkan diri mereka di pohon. Karena aksi mereka yang begitu kejam, pemerintahpun mendeklarasikan undang-undang yang melarang menggantungkan diri orang-orang berkulit hitam.
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Ku Klux Klan
                    Aksi mogok untuk pertama kali pun terjadi. Tiga kali berturut-turut  mulai dari para penambang, maupun dari kepolisian di Boston. Calvin Coolidge yang merupakan Gubernur Massachusets berusaha untuk merdamkan. Salh satu dari aksi mogok yang terkenal tahun 1919 adalah aksi mogok para penambang yang dipimpin oleh John L. Lewis.
                      Warren G. Harding berkampanye untuk pemilihan presiden tahun 1920 bersama calon wakil presidennya Calvin Coolidge. Slogan yang beliau sampaikan di masa kampanye adalah Return to Normalcy (kembali normal). Akhirnya beliau memenangkan pemilu 1920. Administrasi beliau mengajukan kebijakan luar negeri yang disebut isolationist, tidak ikut campur masalah negara lain dan negara lain tidak ikut campur masalah dalam negeri Amerika.
                      Harding termasuk presiden terburuk ketiga di sejarah Amerika. Beberapa alasannya adalah karena beliau pernah mengakui sebaiknya ia tidak pernah menduduki jabatan presiden dan beliau menyesalinya, beliau menganggap remh wanita hingga ia selingkuh terhadap istrinya dan terakhir karena ia mempunya kabinet yang  buruk. Ohio Gang adalah kabinetnya yang bersal dari Ohio, dan mereka hanya merusak kabinet dan mencemarkan nama baik Harding. Skandal yang lain adalah Teapot Dome Scandal, salah satu yang terlibat adalah Albert B. Fall. Skandal ini disebabkan oleh dua perusahaan yang mengambil alih Teapot Dome yang merupakan penghasil minyak milik negara. Salah satu profil terkenal adalah Charles Evan Hughes yang ditunjuk Harding sebagai state sekretaris yang nantinya menjadi ketua mahkamah agung.
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harding
                Harding wafat sebelum Teapot Dome Scandal terselesaikan. Coolidge yang menduduki jabatan wakil presiden, naik pangkat menjadi presiden. Beliau ahli dalam bidang bisnis, sehingga di masa pemerintahannya beliau menguntungkan banyak perusahaan bisnis.
                            Sekitar masa pemerintahan Coolidge, Kellog-Brand Pact disetujui 64 negara yang mengesimpulkan bahwa 'mendeklarasikan perang sebagai alat kebijakan nasional.  Kebijakan yang lain seperti Fordney-McCumber Tariff yang menaikkan pajak pada barang import 60 %. Kekhawatiran terlalu banyaknya immigrant yang masuk kawasan Amerika, pemerintah juga mengambil kebijakan quota system yang menetapkan maksimum jumlah orang yang dapat masuk ke Amerika dari luar negeri.
                                Tahun1920-an merupakan masa perubahan bagi Amerika. Salah satunya disebabkan oleh penemuan automobile oleh H.Ford. Kemajuan dalam bidang teknologi mobil salah satu yang terkenal adalah mobil T perusahaan Ford, maka berkembanglah beberapa aspek lain seperti pembuatan jalan 66 (route 66) yang bermula dari Los Angeles dan berujung Chicago, didirikannya bengkel, pom bensin, tempat belanja, pembaharuan model rumah ditambah garasi, kebebasan para pemuda, piknik keluarga , serta kesempatan kerja  ke luar kota.
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T Ford tahun 1920
                             Kartu kredit mulai berkembang pada masa ini dan dulu disebut Installment Plan yang mempermudah orang membeli barang dalam waktu tertentu tanpa harus memberikan langsung uang pada waktu membeli.
                              Pelarangan alkohol yang terkenal sebagai Prohibition pun terjadi pada thaun 1920-an. Alkohol, mabuk, dianggap masyarakat sebagai tindakan amoral, dan mencemaskan akan memberikan dampak buruk bagi para ibu dan anak. Maka ditetapkanlah Undang-Undang Nomer 18 yang melarang produksi, konsumsi dan distribusi alkohol. Tapi semakin dilarang, semakin banyak yang melanggar. Speakeasies yang merupakan tempat bagi para alcoholic bersembunyi berpesta ria dan, dan bootleggers sebutan bagi para alcoholic yang menyelundupkan alkohol pada sepatu boot. Angka kriminalitas naik pesat setelah pelarangan alkohol, termasuk mafia dan pembunuhan. Seorang mafia yang terkenal dari Chicago yang terkenal adalah Al Capole. Karena keadaan yang memburuk dan hanya 19% warga Amerika yang masih mendukung Undang-Undang No.18, maka undang-undang pun di cabut dan tidak ada lagi pelarangan untuk memproduksi, konsumsi atau distribusi lagi hingga sekarang.
                           Yang berbeda lagi dari tahun 1920-an adalah gaya wanita. Sebelum tahun 1920-an, wanita Amerika masih menggunakan pakaian yang longgar dan anggun, lengan panjang dan rok panjang. Tapi mulai tahun 1920-an, para remaja wanita memilih gaya baru dengan potongan rambut pendek-bob, tanktop, rok pendek diatas lutut. Minum minuman keras, rokok, dan bersumpah dianggap tabu bagi wanita.
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sebelum 1920-an

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setelah 1920-an


Beberapa orang terkenal pada tahun 1920-an diantaranya Charlie Chaplin dan Clara Bow (bintang film), Babe Ruth (pemain baseball), Charles Lindbergh dan Amelia Earhart (penerbang), Penulis Ernest Hemingway dan S.Lewis.
                                 Tahun 1920-an juga terkenal dengan masa Harlem Renaissance, period dimana budaya dari orang kulit hitam terekspos seperti musik dan karya tulis. Beberapa yang terkenal adalah Duke Ellington dan Louis Amstrong. Marcus Garvey mengakui diskriminasi orang kulit hitam dan beliau menginginkan orang-orang kulit hitam untuk kembali ke Afrika.